In this article I’m going to go into each type of conversation a little more in-depth, showing you examples and otherwise generally walking you through them so you can get a better picture of what the different types of conversation look like:
Friends
Casual Sex
Spontaneous
Finding Out More
Which one you pick for any given situation all depends on what you’re looking for.
FRIENDS
If you want to make friends you want to keep things less sexual and more about common interests. There are many advantages to making female friends, or friends in general.
Keeping people friendly assures that they are on your side and working towards your interests. You can have conversations, talk about in-depth things, and minimize the amount of friction that a relationship would otherwise bring.
It takes a little to slip into your normal friend dynamic, but once you get there all your normal jokes should come out. Mostly this style is about getting them to say what is on their mind by not really occupying the conversation, but rather just pacing it in a way that they can say what they feel.
Typically you just want to slowly cover ground in different areas with smooth and slow changes in tempo. Ideally, I’d recommend talking a little about your stance on girls as friends if that is what you are actually going for, because otherwise in the back of her head she is waiting for a move.
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